My son, 24 this past January, moved out last night.

Just for the details: My son is Autistic, abusive towards me, irresponsible, and 24. Several years ago he moved out with my love and support. I even continued to pay his phone bill and go to his apartment and wake him up to ensure he was on time for work. He didn’t pay rent for months, lost his job, and was completely out of control. He needed to come home. When I let him come and stay in my living room he agreed it was temporary.

Almost 3 years later he started dating a thing he met on Tinder. (I say a thing but it is actually a girl who is gross. She has nasty not washed hair, dirty-looking clothes, is enormous, and is easy! She is living and having sex with a guy and my son.) My son has never kept a job for more than a few months. He has social problems that are part of his Autism struggles. He never participates financially in the household. He doesn’t pay for his phone, his food, his anything. Typically I pay for all of his life.

Recently he got a new job earning some good money and agreed to pay rent as well as pay me back for a lot of loans. The moment came he found and decided to buy a car. He had paid some rent/loan money back to me but not even close to what he owes. Then he stopped paying, then he paid another week or two. Then another period of time without anything. Then he paid 2 weeks ago and this week lied to me and then told me he would be paying less for rent. I told him I agreed that he could pay nothing BUT he would need to wake himself up for work every day and take care of his own transportation to work every day!

YES!!! We were waking him up every morning for work! EVERY MORNING! And I was driving him to the work meeting spot every morning as well!

He replied with nevermind! And then while I was out at a family dinner, that he was invited to, him and the troll came to my home and he moved out. He said nothing to his little siblings and just disappeared leaving filth and trash all over my house. She was caught on camera trying to throw garbage on the floor throughout my house. She was also talking very nasty things about me based on lies that he told her.

I am really hurting right now because I am experiencing a ton of loss in my heart and this was just a big crushing action. He couldn’t even say goodbye?!?!?

I really feel like the kids and I were owed better than what he did.

Today, I spent almost an hour cleaning his room and it was so disgusting!

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