March 2018 - Everything and the Kitchen Sink...

An Idea Of Love That Lasts…

On: March 12, 2018

Tagged: Abuse, Abusers with no consequences, Andrew and Samanthas Dad, being lied to, Boundaries, Brett, child abuse, communication, Custody Battles, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Family Physical Abuse, Fear, Finding love, Heartbreak, Lasting Relationships, Lies, looks, love, Married Young and Abused, money, monroe county, Monroe County NYS, My Book, NYS, NYS Domestic Violence, Old, old writings, oldies, OP, Orders of Protection, Parental and Spousal Abuse, Protecting my heart, relationship, Respect, sex, Spousal Abuse

Written around 1997-1999 Now, to start I want to tell you that the page this is linked to was the beginning of a great learning experience! I have read that page so many times with a great deal of tears until I talked to someone that really made me think.Continue Reading

To The Sperm Donor Who Thinks He’s A Father

On: March 3, 2018

In: 2nd, Ex-Husbands, Me

Tagged: deadbeat fathers, mothers who do both roles, sperm donors, To The Sperm Donor Who Thinks He's A Father

To The Sperm Donor Who Thinks He’s A Father Found this to be a great read! This has been very similar to my motherhood!Continue Reading

The frustration that comes from being lied too

On: March 3, 2018

In: Local, Me

Tagged: Buying a vehicle, Getting a car, getting an SUV, Love the idea of a vehicle of my own, Rochester NY, single mom, Vision Kia in East Rochester NY

Yesterday I was so excited having been told by the sales lady at Vision Kia in East Rochester, NY that she would be picking me up this morning to get my vehicle. She said the financing was set and she would pick me up after running out to drop offContinue Reading

Day done and I think tomorrow morning I will be happy

On: March 3, 2018

In: Local, Me

Tagged: bluetooth, First vehicle purchase on my own, Getting a car, getting an SUV, Love the idea of a vehicle of my own, sporty SUV options, sunroof, Vision Kia in East Rochester NY

Spent a lot of time at the Vision Kia Dealership today and decided on a vehicle. They said everything will be ready for me to pick it up in the morning! So… unless anything goes completely crazy I will pick it up in the morning! WOOHOO They will be puttingContinue Reading

Purchasing my first vehicle alone as a single mom

On: March 2, 2018

In: Financial Stuff, Me

Tagged: Buying a vehicle, Credit score, Credit to purchase a vehicle, Dealerships, Exhausting search for a vehicle, Money for a reliable vehicle, Rochester NY, single mom

WELCOME TO PURCHASING A VEHICLE AS A SINGLE MOM 101 This process is hell on earth and exhausting! I started with what I wanted vs what I needed… Need: SUV or bigger for 5 people and more Reliability Tinted windows because my son has sensory issues and the tint helpsContinue Reading

The snow has come back to the ROC

On: March 2, 2018

In: Local, Me

Tagged: awful snow storm in March, Hate snow, Rochester NY, Snow

This morning all prepared to go get myself a vehicle I open the front door and the snow is high enough to cause me strain when trying to open the screen door! Love the many seasons in this area of the country but HATE snow at this point! It hurtsContinue Reading