Today I got a call and it was L being really upset.  His mom, she had heart surgery within the past year or so and has other medical conditions, and she wanted him to not be at her house anymore until the Corona stuff was resolved.Continue Reading

I finally understand although it hurts me so deeply. I will always be judge based on the other people who have hurt you. I will always be looked at with the eye of a cynic because you are incapable of seeing me and not every other person who hurt you.Continue Reading

Corona Virus in Rochester NY and the hunger games we play in the grocery storeContinue Reading

Printable chore dice for kidsContinue Reading

I have kids at home still.  They are 8, 6, and 6.  That is 3rd and 1st graders!  We are now facing a mandatory 4 weeks off of school because of this corona virus stuff.  What does a single mom do when trapped at home during the cold season withContinue Reading

My father was my first and longest abuser.  He still is verbally abusive to myself and the children.  It is why I walked away several years ago…  I needed to save myself!  I couldn’t save myself with daily abuse from him! My family works in a strange way that IContinue Reading

Every single time he opens up emotionally the next action after that opening is an action that practically breaks my heart!Continue Reading

My Carona!!! nananana nananana hey hey hey Ca roNa LOL Sorry just had to do it!Continue Reading

Finally set the line and told him it was over… It is killing me.  I want to take it back.  I feel sick inside and anxious.  It is like no other feeling I have ever experienced.  As if I have cut off a limb.  Why does letting him go hurtContinue Reading

Is this dream a possibility?  I have spent a lot of time settling.Continue Reading

Are you a big gambler with things?  Do you take the risks?  Do you ever jump without thinking for months about the possible fallouts of taking the risk?Continue Reading

In my 40 something years I have seen many unhealthy relationship.  Relationships I have been witness to but also relationships that I was a part of. I have watched moms enable sons to be abusers, thieves, and worse.  I have cried while moms cheer for a son who abused andContinue Reading